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Understanding the OCD Loop

A simple guide to how OCD patterns get stronger

🌪️ What are Obsessions?

Obsessions are intrusive, unwanted thoughts, images, or urges that feel distressing and sticky.
 They often go against your values or what you believe — and that’s exactly what makes them so scary.

❗Example:
 “What if I accidentally harm someone?”
 “Did I really lock the door?”
 “Am I a bad person for thinking this?”

🔁 What are Compulsions?

Compulsions are actions (physical or mental) we do to reduce the distress caused by obsessions.
 They offer temporary relief — but end up reinforcing the fear long-term.

✅ Example Compulsions:

  • Checking things over and over
  • Mentally reviewing events
  • Avoiding certain people/places
  • Repeating words or prayers
  • Asking for reassurance

🔄 How the Cycle Works

  1. Obsession → A scary thought shows up
  2. Distress → It triggers anxiety, shame, or fear
  3. Compulsion → You do something to feel “safe” again
  4. Temporary Relief → Anxiety fades for now
  5. Reinforcement → Your brain learns that you need the compulsion to feel okay
  6. 🌀 Cycle repeats, often getting stronger

🚧 The Problem:

The more you do the compulsion, the more your brain believes the obsession was dangerous.
 Even though you’re trying to feel better, the compulsions feed the OCD loop.

🌱 The Way Out:

  • Learn to sit with the discomfort (even just a little!)
  • Practice Response Prevention aka resisting the compulsion
  • Over time, your brain learns that the threat isn’t real
  • This helps weaken the cycle and reduces anxiety in the long run

🛠️ With the Right Tools & Support…

You can learn to stop feeding the OCD monster and start taking back control.

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